You love your partner, but your relationship sucks!

Let’s get you unstuck and reconnected!

Being in a relationship can sometimes be an emotional roller coaster.

One day you share something deeply personal, and feel super loved and connected. Another day a certain word or action triggers a big unexpected conflict. Leaving you feeling anxious and uncertain about the future of your relationship.

You want to talk about it, but afraid to feel rejected by your partner.

Once again.

Or maybe you would rather not “bring stuff up” to keep the relationship peaceful.

On the outside.

Because we both know that on the inside you feel flooded with million fears and insecurities, making you doubt yourself and your marriage. And feel miserable.

You also know that you can’t go on like this any longer.

You know it’s time for a change.

Call today for a free 15 min consult to discuss the tools and strategies that can help you cope with your inner critic, communicate your needs and desires, and feel truely safe and connected to you partner.


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  • I am truly amazed at how Irina continues to grow professionally and continuously aiming to perfect her craft. She is very passionate about working with families and couples, who are going through a “this sucks” moment. If ready to take action towards a healthier you and/or partnership, Irina is a clinician I recommend!

    Yesenia Villalta LCSW
  • Irina has an existential approach to psychotherapy that helps her clients resolve inner conflicts in a productive and practical way. I have seen her approach help clients develop greater responsibility and ownership for their own lives, decrease isolation and increase their sense of meaningfulness.

    Jayson Blair Managing Partner of Goose Creek Consulting
  • Some words I would use to describe Irina are: engaging, non-judgmental, eager, and innovative. She is the type of person that I feel will always have that desire and motivation to grow professionally. She has proven herself to be culturally sensitive and feels comfortable broaching the topic of how culture may impact or contribute to treatment. Personally, she is an incredibly supportive and kind person.

    Jessica Taylor LPC, LMHP-C
  • Irina doesn't just talk the talk, she walks the walk. She doesn't ask her couples to do anything she isn't willing to do in her own relationship. Irina has participated in her own Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) process through EFT sessions with her husband. This speaks volumes to her belief in and dedication to the EFT model, and how it can deepen and improve couples relationships."

    Catherine Bost MA, LMFTA
  • As a colleague and professional in the mental health field, I wholeheartedly recommend Irina to any couple seeking to do Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. Professionally, Irina is tenacious and driven in a caring way to foster greater intimacy and long lasting connection for her couples. Personally, Irina is compassionate and thoughtful towards everyone she encounters. If you are looking for a professional therapist who you can comfortably communicate with and relate to, Irina is the one for you. Working with Irina will ensure you get to the heart of the matter in your relationship.

    Moubareka Kluver MA, CMFT, CPC, LIMHP, LMHP
  • I can most highly recommend Irina as a therapist. I worked closely with her for several years and she impressed me from the first time I met her. As English is not her first language, her mastery of the language in both speaking and writing is most impressive; her clinical writing is impeccable. Family members expressed to me that they felt cared about and incentivized to improve their circumstances. Ms. Baechle unfailingly nurtured her clients while still holding them accountable for their own progress, thereby providing them the opportunity to succeed and sustain the techniques they learned into the future. When I was a lieutenant in the U.S. Navy, I directed a substance abuse treatment and subsequently, a family counseling and education program at Navy Base Charleston, SC, for four years. One of my responsibilities was to hire civilian social workers and therapists, in addition to supervising a staff consisting of both military and civilian personnel.I would have hired Ms. Baechle without hesitation. She is a gem!

    Debra A. Tinker M.A. LCDR, USNR-Hon. R.
  • I've had the chance to work with Irina, and I am definitely impressed with her work ethic and method. Irina is caring, informed, and open minded. You can see the visible difference in the way clients carry themselves after regular visits with Irina. Irina has a proactive approach to achieving growth in your mental health, your well-being., and your interpersonal relationships. Do yourself a favor and book an appointment with Irina; if you're serious about making improvement, or even if you're just slightly interested, you will thank yourself later!

    M. B. Brooklyn, NY
  • I've watched as Irina excelled through her university education at the top of her class and develop herself into the dynamic therapist she is today. Licensed therapy has been her passion since I've known her. She has personally touched me with her skills as a therapist AND friend by listening, guiding and never judging me! I believe Irina has the right qualities for anyone seeking marriage, relationship or personal therapy because she has devoted her life to her art of healing. In addition to having written a book, I admire her for the ability to take a spiritual and holistic approach when diversity is key to treating patients with different needs. Ive also never been shy to recommend her for anyone I know in Orange County, as they are able to easily do Skype sessions from home which is wonderful

    E. B. Irvine, CA
  • She is a great listener and very personal. She takes her time to understand your problems. If you are looking for a great therapist, look no further, you have found her.

    F. M.
  • Irina is very knowledgeable and passionate in her work! She is hard working and devoted to her clients!

    A. T.